Archive for the ‘Dog Communication’ Category

Do You Have to be a Pet Psychic to Understand your Dog?

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

The Oregonian had an interesting article yesterday titled Give pets their say. The idea is that an “animal communicator,” or “pet psychic” might be able to understand some things about your dog’s behavior by tuning-in telepathically to your dog’s messages. The Oregonian experimented with three “communicators” and found that all three seemed to be getting some relevant information about the subject’s (Levi’s) past. It’s pretty interesting, because Levi was a Hurricane Katrina survivor.

I’m a little skeptical about the “telepathic” part, but I’m not a total disbeliever. I believe dog communication is like intuition. In fact, it is largely intutive. There is a continuum of intuitiveness. Some people are very intuitive — very aware of the things around them. Others are not. Part of the process of developing your dog communication skills is to develop your intuition for your dog’s behavior and body language.

Does a well developed intuition approach telepathy? I’m not sure, but I had an experience once that made me wonder. My wife and I hired an “animal psychic” to meet with our four pets: Tiki, the Amazon parrot; Melody, a Golden Retriever; Renne a mixed breed dog; and Swami, a magnificent male cat. Most of the “messages” sounded to me like the palm reader at a carnival. “There’s been a change in your life.” “Or, something is bothering you.” Sort of generic.

But, when the psychic came to Tiki, the Amazon parrot, she said, “Tiki told me she has ridden down the hallway on Melody’s (the Golden Retriever) back.” This blew us away, because it was absolutely true, and we didn’t think there was any way the psychic could have known it.

This photo is from My Doggie Says… It’s a picture of Tiki, but the dog is Jamie, who arrived at our house after Melody died. In the photo, Jamie is saying, “Hurry up, Tiki, and drop your toast, so I can finish it up.”

Whether it’s telepathy or good instincts, it’s fun to work at being a better dog-listener.

The Fish & Chips Dog

Wednesday, May 30th, 2007

At one of my recent speaking engagements on My Doggie Says…, a member of the audience, Bill, told about his childhood dog, an Airedale, who loved fish & chips.

Bill and his Airedale lived in Scotland, where fish & chips has been popular for a long time. Bill’s dog loved fish & chips so much that Bill worked out a deal with the local “chipper.” Bill would put enough money for one order of fish & chips in a small bag, which he tied to the Airedale’s collar. The dog ran down the local lanes to the chipper, who filled the order, took the money from the dog’s small bag, and tied a bag containing the fish & chips to the dog’s collar.

Once the dog returned home, he would put the fish & chips on the floor in front of Bill. The dog never touched the food until Bill gave the “OK” signal. Bill would say “OK” and the dog would enjoy his meal.

But one evening, the dog put the fish & chips on the floor, and Bill got sidetracked before he could say “OK.” He woke up the next morning and realized that he had never told his dog it was “OK” to eat the fish & chips. He went to the next room, and there was the package, still untouched. So, belatedly, he said “OK” and the dog woofed down his prize. That’s a very disciplined Airedale.

This is a good example of the bond that can be created with a dog when the owner “listens” to his dog. Bill “heard” his Airedale say, “I really like fish & chips.” But the important thing is that he acted on the message. He helped his dog enjoy one of its favorite things every day.

How to Tell Your Dog You're Listening

Tuesday, May 29th, 2007

Your dog is probably sending you lots of messages. Are you listening? Does your dog know you’re listening?

If Fido snuggles up beside you, he’s probably saying something like “How about a little ear scratch?” or “how about scratching my head?” If you ignore him, or say something like “not now, Fido,” you discourage Fido’s communication. You make him wonder if you’re listening. But if you respond with an ear scratch, or a head scratch, you reinforce Fido’s effort to “talk” to you. So make a point of always responding to your dog’s messages.

Crate-training presents a wonderful opportunity to establish good communication with your puppy when it is young and impressionable — and to tell your puppy that you are “listening.” Crate training is normally considered a way of house-training a puppy — and it is effective. But it can also help you create the foundation of a strong communication bond. Here’s how:

One of the rules of crate-training is “don’t let your puppy out of the crate when it whines.” You don’t want to let it out just because it’s saying “I’m tired of being cooped up.” But sometimes a whine means “hey, I really need to go pee.” This is good communication on the puppy’s part. With experience, you can figure out which kind of whine you’re hearing. If it’s the “I need to go pee” whine, respond right away by taking your puppy to its pee place. It will be very grateful to you for doing this. But it will also learn (puppies are really smart) that you are listening.

Callie has been crate-trained since she first came home about 2 1/2 months ago. We try to anticipate when she will need to go outside, but sometimes she beats us to the punch. Usually, it’s in the middle of the night, but not always. Because we’re trying to pay attention, Callie’s “whines” are becoming softer and softer. She’s learning that she doesn’t have to “shout” — that a “whisper” will send the message because her people are “listening.”

One of “Jamie’s Rules” (My Doggie Says…) is “Don’t bark if a ‘wuuf’ will do the job.” This is good advice for people too. But if your dog learns this lesson, it’s probably because it knows you are listening to its messages.

Callie Visits Lake Arrowhead

Sunday, May 27th, 2007

This is the first time that Callie (the soccer dog in previous posts) has been able to really enjoy Lake Arrowhead. She has been here before, but she had not received all her shots, so she couldn’t really enjoy the lake and mountains and other dogs. Callie is now 4 1/2 months old and she’s had all her shots, so she can explore her Lake Arrowhead world.

Lake Arrowhead will be an important part of Callie’s life, so I am trying to introduce it to her gradually, so she will appreciate it in her own ways and so she won’t have any bad memories. So yesterday, Callie went for her first hike in the National Forest. As you would expect for a Golden Retriever, she loved climbing over rocks and fallen tree trunks. There are still a lot of fallen pine trees because of the bark-beetle attack we had a few years ago. There’s a lot of “slash” covering the ground, but Callie handled that really well. Afterwards, Callie said, “Thanks for the hike. I’m tired & I’m going to take a nice long nap.”

Yesterday, Callie did some retrieving (isn’t that what Golden Retrievers are supposed to do?) in the lake. She was on a long leash so she couldn’t get too far from shore. She hasn’t quite figured out how to swim, but it’s fun to see her push herself into deeper and deeper water to retrieve a floating piece of pine. I think she will take her first little Golden Retriever dog-paddles this weekend. She was very close yesterday.

Callie’s first words this morning were, “Can I please carry my squirrel up the stairs?” I was moving her training crate up to the living room, and I had her little squeaky squirrel in one hand. Callie looked me right in the eye, and then she nudged the squirrel with her nose. I gave her the squirrel and up the stairs she went carrying it.

I’m here at Lake Arrowhead with my wife, my daughter Karen, her boyfriend Chris, and Karen’s Golden Retriever, Ishka. Ishka is a 12 1/2 year old Golden Retriever. She was Jamie’s best friend (Jamie, the subject of the book My Doggie Says…). Ishka takes things pretty easy, but Callie is very excited to have another dog around, especially one that looks like her mother. At first, Callie was a little too rambunctious for Ishka. Callie jumped all over Ishka, and Ishka kept politely moving away. (“Hey, pup, can’t you leave me alone?) Finally, Ishka barked a few times and Callie got the message. Now they sniff each other and Callie says “hello” and does a little gentle frolicking, but she respects Ishka’s request for quiet.

The My Doggie Says… philosophy is to tune-in to your dog and help it do the things it was bred to do and enjoys doing. So these early hiking and swimming experiences are important. I’m assuming that Callie will enjoy these things, but I’m trying to introduce them to her in ways that will make them special for her. And I know they will become an important part of our doggie-person relationship.

A Dog Called Perth

Saturday, May 26th, 2007

Lots of people tell me about doggie books. Last Tuesday, a friend left a copy of A Dog Called Perth in my golf locker. The author is Peter Martin, who is the brother of my friend’s brother-in-law. (A Dog Called Perth, by Peter Martin, 2001, Orion Media) This book has a few lovely dog-talk passages, which I will share with you.

But first, this Memorial Day weekend, there’s a lovely story about the family of fallen soldier, Army Spc. Justin Rollins, and the Iraqi puppy he held the day before he was killed. The family, who live in Concord, New Hampshire, now have the puppy, as a rememberance of Justin. See the story on msnbc.com.

A Dog Called Perth is a true story about a beagle, whose owners, author Peter Martin and his wife Cindy, decided that Perth would have complete freedom for all of his lifetime. He would never be tied down. Peter taught Perth how to respect roads and cars, and then trusted Perth to find his way around, which led to one adventure after another. In one incident, Perth jumped off a boat dock and swam to a ferry boat carrying Peter and Cindy.

After various adventures in the U.S., Peter, who is English, has an opportunity to work in his homeland, but moving there would mean that Perth would be quarantined for six months. Peter describes this very doggie-personal, seaside, conversation:

“We had our ways of communicating. I told her gravely, in a falling, confidential voice that it meant six months of imprisonment for her. She shook the specter off. She looked beautiful. Her eyes and briskness of movement spoke of adventure, going forward, taking risks, not looking back. The briny water sparkled on her brown hear, which she held high into the wind. I knew we had to go.”

Another exchange takes place when Peter and Cindy visit Perth in her cement, quarantined prison:

“Perth showed her emotions by looking straight into our eyes with the deepest and most loving look, breathing heavily. She stepped back and forth between my lap and Cindy’s, occasionally letting out a howl. The tenseness in her body gradually dissolved and after a few minutes she settled down on Cindy’s lap. None of us said much, but there was no need to speak.”

I liked the story, but there was an aspect that was frustrating for me. It’s one thing to give a dog total freedom if you live in one place. It’s another if you move from New York to Ohio, to Florida, to Maine, and to England. Some of these moves meant that Perth had to be “parked” with other people, which did not work very well. So I felt sorry for Perth.

It’s a fun book and easy to read and has a few very sweet doggie communications.

Back in Business

Friday, May 25th, 2007

Between my travel schedule and trying to figure out how to do some things in WordPress, I’ve been down for a few days. I’m new to blogging, and some of the technical stuff has been difficult to sort out. The blogging part is easy; it’s all that stuff in the righthand sidebar that took some time. A Ph.D. in Computer Sciences (Carnegie-Mellon University) isn’t worth much these days.

Like lots of other Americans, I’m taking the long Memorial Day weekend off. My family, including Callie, will spend the time at Lake Arrowhead, in the San Bernardino mountains about one hundred miles east of Los Angeles. Lake Arrowhead was one of Jamie’s (the subject of the book My Doggie Says…) favorite places, so I’m thinking about her today. Another time, I’ll tell the rest of Jamie’s story.

Jamie loved to swim at Lake Arrowhead and retrieve her floating “Frisbee,” which is actually a “Floppy Disc.” It was her favorite thing to do, and she started asking to go to the lake as soon as she saw my green backpack come out of the closet. She knew it contained stuff for the lake — flashlights, bottle opener, first-aid kit, and sunscreen. So as soon as Jamie saw the backpack, she would get a big drink of water and then start barking, “Can we please go to the lake now?”

This conversation was followed by a whole sequence of other discussions, because Jamie knew every step of the way to the lake and our boat dock, where her Floppy was stored. So she said things like, “this way to the dock,” and “my floppy is in this dock box,” and “please open the gate so I can run out on the dock,” and “please throw my Floppy now!” And the end result was pure joy for Jamie.

My Doggie Says…: Messages from Jamie is a collection of these photos and stories about dog-talk, or dog communication. Since the book was published, I have had many wonderful conversations with people about their dogs and their communication. I will share some of them with you in future blogs. Dogs “talk” more than most people know. They talk with their bodies and their actions. Sure, they “bark” sometimes, but to understand their messages, you really have to tune-in to their body language.

Share your dog-talk story with me!

A Message from Callie

Friday, May 18th, 2007

Callie says, “I’m ready to play soccer. See if you can beat me!”

Callie is a four-month old Golden Retriever puppy. One of her favorite toys is this under-inflated soccer ball. But how did she get the idea of playing soccer? Was it in her genes? It really was her idea. Since she was about two months old, the first thing she has done every morning, when she goes outside, is to run to the other side of the soccer ball and invite me to play with her.

Soccer with Callie goes like this: She runs and tries to trap the ball between all four of her puppy legs — under her belly. Then it’s my job to kick the ball out from under her tummy and to another place in the backyard. Sometimes, when Callie is trying to trap the ball, she ends up “dribbling” it, until she gets all four legs around it. It’s not easy for me to get it out from under her tummy, because she works hard to protect it. I guess it will get easier as she gets taller.

As you can see, Callie’s getting serious about the game. She would stand there for five minutes, if she needed to, waiting for me to kick the ball.

Now the game is on, and Callie is really into it. She doesn’t do “headers” yet, but she doesn’t mind using her head or her body to block a gentle kick. She loves to run and chase the ball and to play “keep-away” with her legs.

What does this have to do with My Doggie Says…? (www.mydoggiesays.com) My Doggie Says… is about tuning-in to your dog in order to understand its messages and to nurture it — to help it be the things it was bred to be and that it wants to be.

Five years of photographing Jamie’s messages (Jamie is the Golden Retriever subject of My Doggie Says…) taught me that the messages are subtle at times. You have to train yourself to know when your dog is saying something. In another post, I’ll write about one of Jamie’s messages that was difficult to decipher, but it was a very important Golden Retriever message.

How does a dog decide it wants to play soccer? Beats me. But dogs do decide these things. Callie’s decision to be a soccer dog is ironic, because Jamie, with one exception, didn’t care for balls. You could throw her a ball, and she would just let it hit her on the head. She didn’t care at all about balls.

Part of the message is that every dog is different (the subject of another future post) and that it’s important to “listen” to your dog and not just train it to do the things you want it to do.

Hello world!

Friday, May 18th, 2007

Does your dog talk to you? Can you tell what it’s saying? I spent the last five years photographing my Golden Retriever and capturing some of her body language messages. The result is a book titled My Doggie Says…: Messages from Jamie. How a dog named Jamie talks to her people. The web site for the book is www.mydoggiesays.com. In this blog, I plan to share some of the stories from the book. Also, everywhere I go these days, dog-lovers want to have fun conversations about their dogs and how they “talk” to their owners. So I plan to share some of these stories, too. You will also meet a four-month-old Golden Retriever puppy named Callie (short for Callaway) (short for Woodland’s Callaway Hole-in-One). I will post pictures of Callie as she grows up. One of Callie’s favorite things is to play soccer. I’ll post some pictures of Callie playing soccer in the next few days.

Please share your “dog-talk” stories with me and the other readers. Our pets communicate with us more than a lot of people realize. My Doggie Says… has helped a lot of people become more aware of their pets’ communications skills.

Happy Dog-Talking!