Here’s the picture of Callie and Okie-Dokie I submitted for this week’s contest.
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Here’s the picture of Callie and Okie-Dokie I submitted for this week’s contest.
While you’re visiting the site, be sure to vote for this photo to win the contest!
The more you communicate with your dog, the stronger the relationship you can build with it. I hear this message over and over as I talk to dog owners, “My Doggie Says…” readers, and the guests I’ve interviewed on the “My Doggie Says…” show. If you are close to your dog, every once in a while, you will experience a special “dog-bonding” moment. Here, from my daily experience with Callie and from some of my guests on the show, are the “Top Ten Dog-Bonding Moments” for 2008.
#10. Just to “kick” things off, my soccer matches with Callie are always very special moments. From the time she sticks her nose through the sliding glass door to invite me to play, right up to the last “noser” it feels like I’m playing with a human — it’s true paw-to-paw combat.
#9. Ted Kerasote, author of Merle’s door, gets a couple winners this year. His concept of dog’s “reading the news” is a great insight. Next time you take your dog for a walk, notice how much sniffing it does. Ted says it’s a dog’s way of “reading the news.” He says, “It takes me some time to read the newspaper, why shouldn’t a dog have five or ten minutes in the morning to ‘read the news.'” Sniffing is a dogs way of checking out his world and discovering what’s going on.
#8. Carla Genender, author of “Dog Sense,” gets two spots, too. Carla did such a good job of observing dogs, their personalities, and their interactions that she learned a lot about human interactions. By watching her dogs, she learned that it’s a good idea to “speak up about things that are important to you.”
#7. Gordy Leitz and Owen Keefe are K9 police officers in Scottsdale and Mesa, Arizona. They had such great appreciation for their K9 service dogs and their predecessors that they led the charge in creating a monument to the 17 Arizona police dogs that gave their lives in service to the community.
#6. Jean, a reader of “My Doggie Says…” called me and said, “Your book helped me get through the holidays. I lost my husband in the fall, and my Golden Retriever, Nala, is my best pal now. ‘My Doggie Says…’ helped me feel closer to her through some difficult times.”
#5. A “My Doggie Says…” reader stepped on her deaf dog’s tail. Because she had taught the dog some sign language, she moved her fist in a circular motion on her chest to say “I’m sorry.” Her dog put its paw on her fist and followed the circular motions. She was blown away by the dog’s sensitivity.
#4. While “reading the news” in the dark one night (dogs have the advantage of being able to do this), Callie started sniffing around Barbara’s car, and after a complete circle of the car, she found our daughter’s hat that had fallen out of the car. She sniffed it from a distance, and then gradually closed in.
#3. Callie’s fervent request, “Can’t I please sleep in the hallway for a while?” Callie usually sleeps on our bed, or nearby, in the bedroom. But one night something was bugging her, and she did a quick little inspection of the house. When I tried to get her back into the bedroom, she looked me in the eye and sent a message that was totally clear: “I’d really like to sleep in the hallway for a while.” Sometimes, it feels really good to understand your dog’s messages and let them make their own decisions.
#2. Carla Genender’s observations of dogs led her to another insight about human relationships: “Allow yourself to be vulnerable.”
#1. This is my all-time favorite. It’s from Ted Kerasote’s “Merle’s Door.” When Ted tries to get Merle to go bird hunting, which Merle doesn’t like to do, Merle retrieves a pheasant, but instead of presenting it to Ted, Merle spits it out at Ted’s feet and backs away from Ted’s “job well done.” Merle was saying, “Ted, I can do this, I just don’t like to.” And, of course, the communication was completed when Ted got the message and decided not to make Merle hunt for birds any more.
Here are the Top Ten Dog-Bonding Moments as heard on the “My Doggie Says…” show on December 15, 2008.
The “My Doggie Says…” show helps listeners gain a deeper appreciation for “Man’s Best Friend.” The show is broadcast live from 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. on Wednesday nights, on KFNX 1100, Phoenix. It is streamed live on www.1100kfnx.com. Host Fred Haney interviews experts on all aspects of dogs and dog ownership. The show is also available as a podcast on iTunes. Go to the iTunes store, click on “Podcast,” and search for “My Doggie Says…”
Dogs have an amazing sense of smell. In some cases, they can detect odors something like 1000 or times as well as humans. On the “My Doggie Says…” show, we’ve heard Dave Reaver, who trains dogs for K-9 service, talk about dogs’ ability to detect drugs and explosives. And Karen Klingberg, of the Search Dog Foundation, described dogs’ ability to detect the odors of humans in disaster recovery situations.
Here’s a fun article with some doggie smell facts.
I’ve heard all these doggie smell facts and figures, but I’ve never seen them work firsthand. But last night I got my first taste — I mean “smell.”
Callie, Barbara and I are spending the Thanksgiving weekend with our daughter Karen, and her husband Chris, at our Lake Arrowhead home. Last night, the five of us drove to Lake Arrowhead Village to witness the arrival of Santa Clause. The weather is kind of brisk, so we all bundled up with jackets and hats, Karen with her Russian-looking black cap — which makes her look like she should be Olga in a James Bond movie.
We returned home from the celebration and settled into our house with a toasty oak fire in the fireplace.
Just before bedtime, I took Callie outdoors for a little walk, so she could pee and sniff around — “read the papers,” as Ted Kerasote says. She peed and sniffed for a while. Then, as we headed home, Callie started some very serious sniffing at the left rear tire of our car. As usual, in these situations, I let her take charge, and she sniffed all the way to the front of the car and, then, clear across the front. I couldn’t imagine what was so enticing, but Callie was really sniffing hard.
Then, as we worked our way from the right front toward the right rear of the car — near the right passenger door — Callie leaned over and picked something up. In the dark, i couldn’t tell what it was, and I was concerned that it could be a dead animal — or something worse. So I reached out to see what she had, and, to my surprise, it was Karen’s black Russian hat!
Wow. That was some pretty impressive sniffing. Now I’m a true believer in dogs’ sense of smell. Needless to say, Callie was the hero of the evening for saving Karen’s hat.
Sometimes you get a great reward for letting your dog have its way!
Callie is the first dog we’ve crate trained, so I didn’t know what to expect — especially after the crate had served its purpose of helping housebreak Callie. Some people said, “She will continue to use her crate, but I couldn’t imagine how. Now, I’m beginning to understand.
Callie’s crate training went as well as we could have hoped for. It was her place to eat, so she wasn’t going to soil it. Perfectly simple theory — and it worked, with only one or two small accidents when she was just a few months old. She quickly learned to go outside to go potty, and to “squeak,” if she needed to be let out.
Callie is perfectly housebroken now. So there’s no need for the crate any more; right? Well, not exactly. If we leave Callie at home alone, we still put her in her crate — mostly to protect her from herself. We probably won’t always do that. But, aside from that, Callie’s crate has taken on a life of its own.
When we’re around the house, Callie’s crate door is propped open, so she’s free to enter the crate or leave it. She still gets most of her meals there, so it’s a special place in her mind. It also houses her water dish, which she visits frequently. And her puppy pad. So she has good reasons for visiting her crate.
But it’s also become Callie’s own storage place for favorite things. It’s now the home of about a dozen balls of all different kinds. It is frequently the home of “Stinky,” Callie’s little stuffed puppy security object — upon which she sucks quietly almost every night before falling asleep.
Once in a while, Callie manages to steal a sock from me or Barbara. She knows she’s not supposed to do that; you can see the guilt on her face. So when she does it, she runs immediately into her crate and deposits the sock toward the back. She obviously thinks her crate is off limits to people.
It’s neat that Callie likes her crate and thinks of it as a special place. Once in a while, she even goes into it and lies down for a few minutes, knowing that she will be able to walk out when she wants to.
A dog’s crate is its castle!
I have enjoyed all of my interviews with dog experts on the “My Doggie Say…” Radio Show. I’m learning a lot about dogs, and I hope my listeners are, too. This week’s interview with Carla Genender, author of “DogSense,” was especially pleasant, because Carla truly understands how we can learn lessons from our pets. That’s really the point of “DogSense.” It’s filled with lovely little stories about how we humans can get better at human relationships by observing our furry friends.
In the last few months, I’ve had a similar experience with Callie, who keeps reminding me that it’s important to take pleasure from simple things.
Callie is a died-in-the-wool “ball dog.” She loves any kind of ball — beach, soccer, tennis, golf, you name it. But she has an especially rapidly-growing collection of tennis balls. Barbara plays tennis once a week, and she sometimes brings a ball home.Also, our golf club is also bordered by a tennis club, and Callie’s friend Jeff, assistant greens keeper at the golf club, captures a tennis ball for her once in a while.
When Jeff gives Callie a tennis ball, it becomes her favorite possession for a few days. She keeps it separate from the other tennis balls, or, at least, she can tell which is the new one. She keeps it close, wherever she goes. And she will grab the newest ball and bring it to me for some “toss and fetch” play time.
Callie obviously loves her entire tennis ball collection — which is up to fourteen, now — but it’s easy to see how much pleasure she gets from the most recent addition.
We saw this again yesterday. We’re at Lake Arrowhead for the weekend, and as we walked along the shoreline toward our boat (which is about to come out of the water for the winter), I spotted a tennis ball floating in the “surf” (all three inches of it). I pointed Callie toward it, and she gleefully retrieved it and carried it around for the rest of the afternoon.
You can always tell when Callie has a new ball; she holds her head a little higher, and she hangs on a little tighter. If she needs to stop and rest for a minute, she puts it down (most of the time) in a place where it won’t roll away — which is not always easy to find in the mountains.
When we got back to our house, Callie dropped the ball at the front door entrance, only to watch it roll off the deck and fall into black oblivion. But, with a little detective work, we were able to find it, and I retrieved it and gave it back to her. Which led to more proud, head-held-high carrying of the new ball.
Having a new tennis ball is a little thing, but when you’re a “ball dog,” it can mean a lot. We should all take such pleasure from little things.
If you’re a regular reader of this blog, you know that my Golden Retriever puppy, Callie, now 22 months old, started inviting me to play soccer shortly she moved in to my home, at age 8 weeks. Here’s a photo of Callie trying to get a soccer game going when she was about 12 weeks old.
Callie’s been working hard on her soccer skills. Every time I walk past the slightly-open sliding door to the back yard, Callie pokes her nose through the opening, sending me an obvious message, “Hey, Fred, could we please play soccer?”
Usually, the game is that I kick the ball, and Callie runs and traps it under her tummy. Or she puts her paw on it until I kick it away. Like any good soccer player, Callie tries to anticipate which way I’m going to kick the ball. She stays low and balanced and tries to figure out which way the ball is going, so she can trap it right away. If I do manage to get it past her, she races to catch up with the ball, and then she captures it until I’m ready for the next kick.
As Callie has grown, she has become much better at jumping to try to “grab” a high kick. After all, her dad (Cutter, Any Way You Slice It), is an American and Canadian agility champion. So Callie has some good, athletic genes. She jumps to try to “catch” even the highest kick. She can’t really do “headers,” but she’s invented the “doggie noser.” Our soccer ball is slightly under-inflated, so when Callie “noses” the ball, it makes a loud “bonk” noise.
Here are some edited clips of Callie doing “nosers.” See if you can solve the “Where is Callie?” puzzle mid-way through the video. At one point, Callie hides behind a bush and waits for me to kick the ball. She’s just full of tricks.
One of my pet peeves is that scientists keep publishing papers that say either “dogs aren’t very smart” or “maybe dogs are a little smarter than we thought.” They obviously aren’t smart in the same ways that humans are smart, but they do some pretty amazing things. Scientists may not be using the right criteria. They usually evaluate dogs for their “problem solving” skills. So if a dog can’t work a Rubik’s Cube, does that mean it isn’t smart?
Here’s what I mean.
I wrote a couple of weeks ago that our morning jog at Lake Arrowhead takes us past some tennis courts at the UCLA Conference Center. The courts are buffered from the street, where we run, by some bushes that are as high as the screen around the tennis courts. One morning, Callie noticed a tennis ball under the bushes. She stopped dead in her tracks, asking, “could we please retrieve this tennis ball?”
Unfortunately, the ball was on the other side of the wire screen, so we couldn’t get at it.
Just last weekend, we did the same jog, and as we approached the tennis courts, Callie went on “ready alert.” She absolutely remembered that she had found a tennis ball in this place before; she fixed her gaze on the base of the bushes as we jogged by. Then, she spotted a tennis ball and froze in place. “Hey, Fred, can you reach this one?” Luckily, this time the ball was on our side of the fence, so I was able to crawl under the bushes and retrieve it for the salivating Callie.
So what was that all about? Callie obviously remembered that she had seen a ball by the tennis courts. She knew to look for one. She knew that she is, in fact, a “ball dog.” (Not all dogs are “ball dogs.”) So tell me that’s not some kind of smart.
This won’t be real scientific, although I do have some background in using computers to do things that people usually do — a field dubbed “artificial intelligence.” And I can see sort of a parallel between dogs’ intelligence and the intelligence of computers. Computers have two kinds of intelligence: 1) “processing power,” or the ability to crunch numbers & logic and 2) memory, the ability to recall enormous amounts of data — sometimes in an “associative” manner. Some computer memories are “associative,” which means that they are good at remembering relationships between different things.
Maybe dogs don’t have Intel chips to do their processing. Maybe they aren’t great “problem solvers,” in the sense of the scientists. But they do seem to have rich “associative” memories. They remember places. They remember routes. They remember how to get back home. They remember where they put their toys. They remember their favorite places. Jamie, the heroine of “My Doggie Says… Messages from Jamie.” remembered where her Floppy Disc was.
And best of all, they remember when it’s time to eat.
How smart is your dog? How do you know?
I got back Sunday evening from nine days with my family on Santa Catalina Island, CA. We had a wonderful, sunshine-filled family vacation at the Hamilton Cove condo complex in Avalon. During that time, Barbara and I missed Callie very much, but we knew she was in the good hands of Carter Patrick Carrigan, professional pet sitter. Carter comes to our house three times a day to walk Callie, which is great, but it’s not as much exercise as she’s used to getting.
Clearly suffering from some separation anxiety, Callie went nuts when Barbara and I walked into the house and let Callie out of her crate. First she ran and jumped back and forth between us as fast as she could. It was as if she couldn’t decide which of us to greet first, so she tried to greet us both, individually, at the same time. Which is pretty hard to do.
Next, she ran back to her crate to retrieve (after all, she is a Golden Retriever) her “Stinky,” which is her soft and fluffy now half-puppy security object, so named because “stinky” is what our granddaughters call their security blankets. She presented Stinky to me, and we played a short game of “let’s both hold this for a while.” Which is a game Callie invented.
When my family goes to Catalina, son Brad and I go across the Catalina Channel (about 30 miles) in his fishing boat. Somewhere along the line, on the return trip, I got a small scratch on my leg — probably from unloading fishing rods or other gear. Of course, as soon as Callie settled down, she spotted my scratch and gave it a few “wound healing” licks.
Then, predictably, Callie ran to the back door to invite me to play soccer in the back yard. How could I pass up such a wonderful invitation? So we went into the back yard and played soccer for about ten minutes. Which is about my attention span. Callie would play for hours.
I’m sure Man’s Best Friend was pretty lonely for nine days, but she made up for it in the first thirty minutes after our return. And from then on, things were pretty routine — perhaps with Callie staying a little closer than normal to Barbara and me.
What better welcome?
Your dog’s daily jog or walk is rich with opportunities for your dog to communicate — and for you to listen and try to understand. Callie’s three-mile jog this morning is a perfect example.
Usually, Barbara, Callie and I run together, but this morning Barbara had an early meeting, so it was just Callie and me. Which probably changed the doggie-chemistry a little. I had to work a little harder to figure out what Callie was “saying.”
It started as soon as we began to jog up our street. Callie pulled me over to the gutter, because she had spotted something I hadn’t seen — a blue, plastic, softball-sized ball. Well, nothing gets Callie pumped up like a new ball. Unlike Jamie, Callie is truly a “ball dog.” Every new ball that comes into her life becomes her favorite toy (except for “Stinky”) for a few days. So Callie picked up the blue ball and started to carry it in her mouth.
This was OK for a while, but Callie decided she liked the ball so much that she wanted to sit down and play with it. It got to be a huge distraction from our running, so I popped it into my fanny-pack so we could get on with business.
The next “loud” message came as we ran through the parking lot at the nearby golf club. There are two “roads” through the parking lot — an entrance to the left, and an exit to the right. In order to cut corners a little, I started down the entrance road to the left. But remembering that the three of us always take the exit path to the right, Callie stopped and pointed her muzzle toward the right hand route. She was saying, “Couldn’t we go the way we usually do it?” I thought, “Why not?” and Callie picked up the pace smartly, her polite request having been heeded.
There’s a pretty good clue here: Sometimes, if your not sure what your dog is saying, it helps to be aware of where it is looking. In this case, Callie was looking in the direction she wanted us to run. Another time, she might be looking at a ball, or a pine cone, or a stick that she wants to pick up. Or at something she’d like to eat. Or a toy she wants me to pick up so we can play.
Callie’s third message came as we jogged along the street that borders the golf course — facing traffic on the side of the road farthest from the golf course. But there’s a little stretch of berm on the golf course side that is covered with wood chips, so it makes a nice soft place to run. It’s probably not wide enough for three people, so maybe Callie realized that with just two of us it would work. So she stopped on the street, and looked toward the other (right) side, with the nicely wood-chip-cushioned berm. I knew she was asking to run on the soft stuff, and it didn’t really cause a problem, so we crossed over, and Callie was happy as a puppy with a Kong toy!
You, as the dog’s owner, need to be in charge. But I enjoy figuring out my dogs’ polite requests and honoring them when it makes sense. I think it makes them feel good to have their suggestions taken. This morning’s walk was pretty typical; it gave Callie a lot of opportunities to express ourselves — and for us to build a stronger owner-dog relationship.
Next time you take your dog for a walk or run, pay attention to its messages and try to give you dog the gift of going along with some of its suggestions.
Callie and I were walking through the Lake Arrowhead Village on Sunday. As usual, Callie made lots of friends — both people friends and doggie friends. She even ran into Bub McCloughlin, the cadaver dog, again. Bub is a Golden Doodle, and Callie really likes him. They had a fun time sniffing each other and jousting doggie-style. Here’s Bub’s picture from the first time they met, a few weeks ago.
As we walked closer to the “Center Stage,” Callie created one of those “why did my dog do that?” moments. All of a sudden, she veered off the sidewalk and plopped down on the ground behind a cement wall.
At first, it didn’t seem to make any sense. I couldn’t imagine what she was doing. I assumed that she was sending me some kind of message, but I couldn’t imagine what it was.
So I started through my checklist of things to think about when trying to decipher doggie messages. One item on the checklist is “remember, dogs have very acute senses of hearing and smell.
That was a far as I needed to go. On the other side of the wall where Callie was lying, a rock band was tuning up for a Sunday afternoon concert. And, man, were they loud! The drummer must have been checking to see how loud he could get his drums. It took a minute, but I had broken the code. Callie was saying, “That music is way too loud for my sensitive ears.” She had nestled down behind the wall to protect her ears.
A dog’s behavior can be rich with messages. Sometimes the messages are obvious, but sometimes it takes a little detective work to figure them out.