Archive for the ‘Callie’ Category

Callie, soccer dog, shows off her "nosers" (Video)

Sunday, May 24th, 2009

Check this out. You’ve been hearing about Callie’s soccer skills and how she invites me to play soccer every day. Soccer has become an integral pert of Callie’s dog personality. She’s graduated from trapping the ball under her tummy to doing “nosers.” “Nosers” are what you do if you are a Golden Retriever and your nose gets in the way of doing a “header.”

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What does your dog do for fun? Make a comment or send a video link, and we’ll share it with our readers.

Play like this can bring you a lot closer to your pet. In Callie’s case, soccer was her idea, so I’m nurturing her dog nature by going along with her whenever I can. Plus, it’s fun for me, too!

What’s your dog’s favorite sport? Is there a game you can play with your dog? Got video? Post a comment; share a link.

Goodbye, Samantha. Callie, a golden retriever, says goodbye to Jamie's puppy kindergarten friend

Friday, May 15th, 2009

This is the fourth goodbye I’ve had to say since March of 2008. It’s sad. First, Charlie, my best friend from my morning jog. And then Ishka, Jamie’s best pal, whom I only got to know a little. And then Okie-Dokie, the wonderfull black cat who taught me more than I wanted to know about cats. And, now, Samantha, Jamie’s best friend from Puppy Kindergarten.

Samantha was a lovely black lab. She and Jamie got along really great right from the start. I wasn’t there to know this; Jamie tells me from her special swimming and frisbee-retrieving place in doggie heaven. Jamie liked Samantha a lot. So did Barbara and Fred. Actually, it was Samantha’s skill as a frisbee dog that prompted Fred to work so much, with me, on catching our “Chuckit” flying squirrel toy.

Samantha served as a therapy dog, visiting nursing homes in the San Fernando Valley, so she spent a lot of time cheering people up. Goodbye, Samantha; Jamie and I will miss you.

Fred’s favorite web site for people who have lost their pets is the collection of poems at petloss.com. Clink on this to see it.

His favorite, by Rudyard Kipling, is “Dinah Goes to Heaven.”

She did not know that she was dead
But, when the pang was o’er,
Sat down to wait her Master’s tread
Upon the Golden Floor,

With ears full-cock and anxious eyes,
Impatiently resigned;
But ignorant that Paradise
Did not admit her kind.

There was one step along the Stair
That led to Heaven’s Gate;
And, till she heard it, her affair
Was — she explained — to wait.

And she explained with flattened ear,
Bared lip and milky tooth–
Storming against Ithuriel’s Spear
That only proved her truth!

Sudden — far down the Bridge of Ghosts
That anxious spirits clomb–
She caught that step in all the hosts,
And knew that he had come.

She left them wondering what to do,
But not a doubt had she.
Swifter than her own squeal she flew
Across the Glassy Sea;

Flushing the Cherubs everywhere,
And skidding as she ran,
She refuged under Peter’s Chair
And waited for her man.

There spoke a Spirit out of the press,
‘Said: — “Have you any here
That saved a fool from drunkenness,
And a coward from his fear?

“That turned a soul from dark to day
When other help was vain;
That snatched it from Wanhope and made
A cur a man again?”

“Enter and look,” said Peter then,
And set the Gate ajar.
“If I know aught of women and men
I trow she is not far.”

“Neither by virtue, speech nor art
Nor hope of grace to win;
But godless innocence of heart
That never heard of sin:

“Neither by beauty nor belief
Nor white example shown.
Something a wanton — more a thief —
But — most of all — mine own.”

“Enter and look,” said Peter then,
“And send you well to speed;
But, for all that I know of women and men
Your riddle is hard to read.”

Then flew Dinah from under the Chair,
Into his arms she flew —
And licked his face from chin to hair
And Peter passed them through!

Dog Whispering: Brian Lee, of "The Way of the Dog," Teaches Callie How to Get Along with Five-year-old Lauren and Three-Year-Old Amelia

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

Because of Jamie’s (the heroine of “My Doggie Says…), gentle dog nature, my granddaughter Lauren had a wonderful relationship with her. Check this out:

In the above photo, Lauren is about one year old.

Now, Lauren is almost five years old, and her sister, Amelia, is almost three. And they are trying to learn how to get along with Callie, a two-year old puppy who has a wonderful doggie nature but is so rambunctious she scares Lauren and Amelia at times.

It’s been a bit of a struggle to have the girls around with Callie off the leash, so we enlisted the dog training help of Brian Lee, an expert and experienced dog trainer (who appeared on the “My Doggie Says…” radio show on March 18, 2009). In one session, Brian helped Barbara and me “adjust” our relationship with Callie in order to command a little more “doggie respect.”

Then, Brian brought his dog whispering skills to Lauren and Amelia. He helped them have more confidence around Callie — and to know how to react to Callie’s enthusiasm. And he taught Callie to be calmer around the girls and that their “stinkies” (security blankets) and snack food are “off limits.”

After the session with Brian, Callie’s Golden Retriever dog nature came to the fore, and she performed like a champ. This one-minute video shows Callie playing soccer with Amelia (who had been afraid of Callie) and then both Lauren and Amelia in our Jacuzzi with Callie bouncing around the edges.

httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBnLA6TzVik

Thanks, Brian! You worked a miracle for us!!! It was a great example of dog behavior modification.

Dog Talk: Callie Understands English, So Why Should I Learn to Talk Dog?

Thursday, April 2nd, 2009

I know I’m supposed to be dog whispering and tuning into Callie’s dog body language. Like tuning into pack behavior and all that stuff. Like “practice what your preach!” But why am I having to learn dog speak, when Callie speaks English?

We’re getting ready to have our two granddaughters visit for a few days, and we’re working on ways to get Callie to calm down around them. She’s a puppy in spirit and sometimes she’s too frisky for the girls, who are about 3 and 5 years old.

So, we’ve been working hard at enforcing some rules, like “Callie, you can’t climb up on the sofa any more.” It’s not that the sofa is so special, but we’re trying to do some good dog training and establish our authority more clearly. And Callie has been pretty good about it. It seems like she’s a lot more relaxed around the house. Only problem is, sometimes she goes off by herself, instead of hanging out with us.

You already know about “Stinky,” Callie’s one-half (front half) of a stuffed dog. “Stinky” is Callie’s security object, and she finds it just about every evening and nibbles on it gently, as if it helps her relax and get ready to fall asleep.

Last night, I called Callie into our den. She trotted into the den right away. Then I said, “Callie, why don’t you go get Stinky and come be here with us?”

You know what? She trotted down the other hallway to her crate, retrieved Stinky, and came back to spend the rest of the evening with us.

Most dog communication is “sit,” “stay,” and “come,” so it blew me away that Callie seemed to completely understand my whole sentence.

I am continually amazed at how smart Man’s best friend, the family dog, can be!

Dog Pet Peeves: Do You Know Your Puppy's Pet Peeves? By Callie

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

If your puppy is like me (I’m two years old now), it probably has some pet peeves. It’s hard for dogs to express themselves, but if you really pay attention you might be able to figure out some things that bug your pup. Here are a few of my Puppy Pet Peeves:

Short leash
Here’s one that just drives me nuts. Ever notice how many dog owners pull their dog’s leash real tight when another dog comes along? Why can’t people just trust us dogs to work things out? As soon as that leash tightens up, the dogs gets a message from its owner, “I’m afraid of this other dog.” So their dog gets real defensive and protective. C’mon. Give us dogs some credit, will you? We’re probably better than most people at making new friends, sniffing out (if you know what I mean) they lay of the land, and getting along peacefully.

Getting left home
I know there’s nothing to do about this one, but I really don’t like to get left home alone. There are times when Fred and Barbara both have to go their work. Then don’t usually leave me for very long, but it means I have to go back in my cage. It’s soooooo much better when I can hang out in Fred’s office, take a nap on the futon, play with Fred a little, and go where I want around the house.
When Fred says “No” to playing soccer with me
I can never understand why Fred doesn’t always accept my invitations to play soccer in the back yard. I just love to play soccer with Fred. So I poke my nose through the opening in the sliding glad door to the back yard. And Fred knows that’s my way of inviting him to play soccer with me. But sometimes he just walks right on by to get a cup of coffee or go back to his office. Why can’t we just play soccer for about eight hours every day?

How come I’m the one who always remembers my jumping rock and my jumping bench?
When I go on my morning jog with Fred and Barbara, I have a few places where I get to jump up and sit for a minute. One is a tall flat boulder by the post office. Another is a wooden bench on the golf course. I’ve got Fred and Barbara trained to give me a little piece of puppy treat when I jump up on the boulder or the bench. But lots of time Fred and Barbara forget about my jumping places. So I have to drag them over to remind them. I guess it’s not a big deal, because they usually remember (finally!), but why can’t they always remember? Humans must have funny memories that don’t work as well as dogs’ brains.

No divots?
Everyone knows that dogs like to eat a little grass. It can even be good for our tummies — sometimes. And we live right across the street from “Grass Heaven” – a golf course with an occasional divot that is just perfect bite-size for a puppy like me. I snatch these little suckers every chance I get, but Fred and Barbara try to pull me away from them with my leash. So I keep working on being a little faster and sneakier. I can snatch a divot faster that John Wayne could draw his six-shooter. But it’s getting harder all the time. Hey, guys! What would be so bad about a little perennial ryegrass divot once in a while?

Why do I have to keep learning how to swim?
Every time Fred and Barbara take me swimming, it seems like I have to learn all over again. I wade in until the water gets deep, and then I back up to the shoreline, because I’m not quite sure how to handle the deeper water. Fred keeps throwing my “Floppy Disc” farther out, and, pretty soon, I have to swim to get to it. Why can’t they teach me to swim once and for all, so I don’t have to keep going through this learning thing? It’s a pain in the doggie tail, if you know what I mean.

Why can’t I chase those cute little animals with the black and white tail?
Sometimes at night I see little critters in the back yard, and I bark my brains out to warn Fred and Barbara about these guys. There are some funny grey animals that pretend they are dead when they hear me barking. And there are some guys who look like bandits, with black masks over their eyes – and fluffy tails with rings and circles all around. And then there are black and white cat-looking animals with long black and white tails. I sure wish Fred would let me go out and chase them sometimes.He says they’re skunks.

Give yourself the Puppy Pet Peeve Test and see if you can figure out some of the things that upset your dog. It will help you have a better relationship.

Bye for now,

Callie

Dog Talk: My Dog Tried to Bribe Me!

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

I keep thinking that dogs are smarter than we give them credit for, and science keeps telling me I’m wrong. But I haven’t given up yet. Call it smart, or call it “clever,” but there’s something going on in the minds of “man’s best friend” that ain’t dumb.

To understand this story, you have to understand how “Stinky” fits into Callie’s life. Stinky is now one-half of a stuffed puppy. The original 100% stuffed puppy was one of Jamie’s (the heroine of “My Doggie Says…”) toys, but not a great favorite. Callie inherited Stinky when Jamie left us. Actually, that’s when Stinky got named “Stinky,” because that’s what our granddaughters call their security blankets — for good reason.

After some aggressive puppy chewing by Callie, Stinky lost her back half and had to be re-sewn by the local dressmaker. So Stinky is now the two-legged front half of a stuffed puppy. But Callie loves Stinky more than any other toy. She’s never very far away from Stinky, and she always seems to know where Stinky is.

Every evening, when it’s time to calm down and think about going to sleep, Callie runs to find Stinky. Then she very gently nibbles and sucks on it. Stinky is Callie’s pacifier. Sometimes, Callie brings Stinky to me. She ceremoniously presents Stinky to me, and then I give Stinky back to her, or we hold it together.

So here’s the deal (so to speak). Yesterday, I was sitting at my desk and Callie walked over and presented her feathery chest for some scratching. So, as I worked, I gave her chest a really vigorous scratching with my left hand. Then I said, “OK, Callie, I just have to work for a while.” Which Callie understands pretty well. So she walked away.

The next thing I new, Callie had returned with Stinky in her mouth. She presented Stinky to me, as she has other times, but this time, she wouldn’t take Stinky back. She insisted that I keep Stinky. She just stuck her chest feathers out again, saying, “Please scratch my chest some more!”

That rascal was bribing me. She gave me her most treasured possession, thinking the gift would induce me to scratch her chest some more.

Are dogs smart, or what?

Goodbye Okie-Dokie, by Callie

Saturday, January 24th, 2009

I just lost my best animal friend — Okie-Dokie, the black cat. She was just fine a few days ago, but then she had some serious kidney problems, and within a few days she was gone. Poor Okie-Dokie. She was a good pal to me — after teaching me some dog-cat manners. I’ll miss her a lot. I guess, though, that her 17 years were pretty good cat years.

Okie-Dokie adopted Fred and Barbara about 10 years ago. She just showed up one day, in the front yard, hunting for gophers, a few of which had migrated across the street from the golf course. She hunted gophers for a few days, and then she started to check out the front doorstep. Eventually, Fred and Barbara put out some cat food, which the strange black cat gobbled down. Next, she started to explore the inside of her house. All in all, it took Okie-Dokie about two weeks to decide to adopt Fred and Barbara.

A few years earlier, Fred and Barbara had dinner at a restaurant in Cabo San Luca, Mexico, where their waiter was just always saying “Okie-Dokie.” “Okie-Dokie, I’ll bring you another Pacifico.” “Okie-Dokie, your enchiladas are coming right up!” So they decided that they would name their next cat “Okie-Dokie.”

A few years later, Fred and Barbara learned the true story about Okie-Dokie. Okie-Dokie, who was originally named Maxine, was a ferel cat that had been adopted by a young couple that lived a few blocks away from Fred and Barbara. When the couple had their second baby, Okie-Dokie decided she wasn’t getting enough attention, so she started scouting for a new place to live. It turns out that some of the couple’s neighbors saw this happening, but Fred and Barbara didn’t learn about it for several years.

When Okie-Dokie adopted Fred and Barbara, Jamie (my predecessor Golden Retriever) was about two years old (which is what I am now!). Here’s a photograph from “My Doggie Says… Messages from Jamie,” that shows Okie-Dokie and Jamie having their daily afternoon nap in the hallway.

When I arrived at Fred and Barbara’s house almost two years ago, Okie-Dokie was about 15 years old. At first, Okie and I didn’t get along very well. I was a fluffy little puppy, and I kept thinking Okie-Dokie would want to play with me. But everytime I jumped at her, she swatted my nose. I finally learned that Okie-Dokie was in charge and that we could play on her terms, not mine. We didn’t actually “play” a lot, but we got to be very good friends. We enjoyed sniffing noses. Sometimes, Okie-Dokie would lick my face, or my coat. Sometimes I would lick Okie-Dokie’s fur. We never shared a nap in the hallway, like Jamie and Okie-Dokie, but recently we napped a lot on the futon in Fred’s office. Sometimes, I used Okie-Dokie like a pillow. She seemed to like that.

So that makes three really good pals I’ve lost in my two, young years. Charlie, my Golden Retriever friend that I used to see on my morning jog. And then Ishka, Karen’s (Fred and Barbara’s daughter) Golden Retriever. And now Okie-Dokie. Okie-Dokie is the toughest to deal with, because I spent time with her every day. I’ve been making up for the loss of Okie-Dokie by spending lots more time with “Stinky,” my one-half stuffed puppy security object. I don’t know what I’d do without “Stinky.”

Fred says losing a pet is really hard for people, too. They love their pets very much, and it’s hard for them to understand that dogs and cats just don’t live as long as people usually do. Here’s a collection of poems that have given Fred and Barbara lots of comfort when they’ve lost pets.

Goodbye, Okie-Dokie. You were a great cat and a great pal, and I’ll always love you.

Callie


Dog Intelligence: How Smart Are Dogs, Really?

Thursday, January 22nd, 2009

I’m sorry, but I can’t help but think dogs are smarter than most scientists and researchers give them credit for. In my December 3, 2008, interview with Stan Coren, noted author and researcher on the topics of “dog speak” and dog intelligence, Stan said that dogs have the intelligence of a 2 1/2 year old human child. Well, that might be right by conventional definitions and measurements of “dog intelligence,” but I think there’s something more going on here.

How do you explain this?

This morning, during my golf practice, I found a nice new tennis ball. A tennis ball on a golf course, you ask? Well, there are tennis courts right next to the golf short-game practice area. So I brought the tennis ball home for Callie, and, as usual, it became her “ball for the day.” She has a dozen or more tennis balls in her crate and scattered around the house, but this ball became “today’s special tennis ball.” She brought it to me to play “fetch.” She carried it to the kitchen when she went out to pee. And she snuggled with it in the bathroom while I took my shower.

When I went out to lunch, I put Callie in her crate, not noticing that “today’s special ball” was not in the crate. When I got home and let her out of the crate, she ran immediately (as in “no hesitation”) to the bathroom (which is in the opposite direction of her normal path) and came out with — you guessed it — “today’s special ball.”

Would a 2 1/2 year old child have done that? Maybe, but I’m not convinced. Would a child have become so attached to one toy/ball? Would it have remembered, after about 2 hours, where it had left the toy/ball? Would it have planned, the instant I opened the crate door, to go retrieve that ball?

I have a suspicion that the scientists are measuring something like “problem solving ability” or “information processing ability.” So maybe I’m seeing something different. It just seems to me that dogs have an uncanny ability to “connect the dots” sometimes. They remember things — much better than a 2 1/2 year old kid, it seems to me. They remember people, other dogs, places, routes to get to places, and lots of other stuff. Could a 2 1/2 year old kid find its way from my Lake Arrowhead home to my boat dock? I don’t think so, but Callie could, if she wanted to go swimming.

We’ve all heard the stories about dogs that found their way home after being left miles — even hundreds of miles — away. Could a 2 1/2 year old kid to that? Maybe it’s not “intelligence,” but something different — a homing instinct, an uncanny memory, unbelievable sense of smell, or something else. But dogs do some pretty amazing things.

Help Your Dog Fulfill Its Social Aspirations

Tuesday, January 20th, 2009

Most dogs are social animals, so why not help your dog fulfill its social aspirations? Your dog will make more friends — with people and with other dogs — and it will gain confidence. What better way to endear yourself to your dog than to help it make friends? Which is something it desperately wants to do.

Here’s an article from WikiHow that has some suggestions on how to help your dog socialize.

And here’s one from about.com.

Callie’s very social — both with people and with other dogs.

On our morning jog, we often take shortcuts through the local golf course. So Callie has become best of friends with Jeff, the assistant greens keeper. Jeff occasionally gives Callie a newly found tennis ball, which, in Callie’s world, is every bit as good as a puppy treat — maybe better. When we’re anywhere near the golf course, Callie is obviously looking for Jeff. If there’s a golf cart within 100 yards, Callie focuses on it; she gets excited if she thinks it might be Jeff. Yesterday, Callie did see Jeff in his cart, but he drove away to do some greens keeping business. It was obvious that Callie was very disappointed. She pulled on the leash to chase after Jeff, ears back expressing her frustration.

Callie also likes to make doggie friends. She has about a dozen regulars, but she’s always up for meeting new dogs. Here’s Callie with one of her favorite regulars, Bub McLoughlin, the Goldendoodle cadaver dog. Callie sees Bub every few weeks at Lake Arrowhead village, and every reunion between the two good friends is playful and sporting.

It’s kind of obvious that, if dogs are so social, it makes sense to let them socialize. But I think a lot of owners mess this up. They’re afraid their precious pet might get hurt. So they don’t let it socialize. Or they keep the leash so tight that the dog thinks the owner is afraid of the other dog — so the owner’s dog gets defensive and protective.

The best policy in these situations (outside a dog park and assuming leash laws apply) is to give both dogs lots of loose leash and let them “work it out.” Chances are the other dog is a social addict, too, so they’ll probably enjoy getting to know each other. You may have to work with the other owner to keep the leashes from getting tangled. But the dogs will have fun. On the odd chance that things do get out of hand, just pull your dog away and go find a more friendly companion.

Nurturing your dog’s personality is one of the best ways to build a stronger relationship with it. Almost all dogs have a strong desire to interact with dogs and people. Stanley Coren has an interesting way of saying this. He says that dogs have the intelligence of a 2 1/2 year old child. But he also says they have the social instincts of a teenager. So help your dog be a teenager!

Does your dog understand pillows?

Thursday, January 8th, 2009

Until now, I’ve never had a dog that understood how wonderful pillows can be. Jamie, the heroine of “My Doggie Says… Messages from Jamie,” didn’t need pillows. She made her own by folding a front ankle backwards and using it like a pillow. We called it “tired puppy paws,” because she usually did it when she was tuckered out after a long jog. Here’s Jamie’s “tired puppy paws.”

But Callie has discovered the magic of pillows. She’s really learned how to use them to make herself more comfortable. Here she is pillowing out on the futon in my office:

And here she is using the arm rest of a sofa at Lake Arrowhead like a pillow.

She’s even learned about the pillows on our bed. Jamie always slept on a corner of our mattress near the foot of the bed. Callie usually starts out there, but once in a while, I’ll wake up in the middle of the night and discover that I’m sharing my pillow with a furry friend.

It’s fun to give a dog enough freedom that it make its own discoveries.

Does your dog understand how pillows work?